Short monologue-style advice (YouTube) urging women to enforce firm boundaries when men ghost and subsequently love-bomb them. The speaker frames ghosting/love-bombing as an unsafe bonding pattern, advises asking whether a future husband would behave that way, and links the pattern to absent fathers.
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Tatiana said he keeps ghosting me and then lap bombing me also. And I say this with love and respect. I allow him to keep ghosting me and I allow him to keep love bombing me. Ladies, we have to stand on our boundary business.
Which means that when he messes up, he's out.
He should not be coming back. If a man ghosts you, you need to ask yourself this question. Would my future husband do this to me?
And if the answer is no, dump his ass.
Goat girl. Ghosts, ghost.
Never that.
Love bombing.
Love bombs over Baghdad. Never that.
A lot of us are going to have to.
Prioritize our safety over attention.
This is.
A certain pattern, bonding pattern that is not going to be safe for you. And when I. When I see this ghosting and love bombing and let me know if this is your experience. Ladies, I know.
Dad was not emotionally or physically there.
The worst dads give the guest the best presents and speak the biggest game. So this pattern. He ghosts me. Either your dad worked too much or he was divorced your mother or he abandoned his family and then he comes back and he gives you a present and you think everything is okay. Or he comes back and he's. And he speaks sweet nothings in your ear and promises you the world and gives you a pebble. This is a bonding pattern. Heal the father wound and you will never experience this again. If you need help with that, book a call and get into one of my programs.
