Why do men keep humbling you?

Mia said, I keep meeting men who want to humble me. They want to humble you because you're out of their league. And when you're out of. That's why you never want to give a guy a chance. Don't play Mother Teresa. Don't play Sister Act. When it comes to dating, you're not here to save men. When you do that, just like you being a lifeguard and you trying to save someone from drowning.

They will drown you to save themselves. They will pull you down so that they can feel better about themselves and their own ego. Never give guys that you already know are not on your level. Let's be honest here, ladies.

Don't give them a chance.

That's the thing. I think a lot of women think it's kind of like the Christian mentality. If I'm. If I'm a really good person and I'm giving, I'm gonna go to heaven. And people take that, and they use it in dating as well. If I'm a really good girl and I give these guys a chance and I work on them and I help them out, that I'm gonna get into the best relationship of my life. It's actually the opposite.

The movie the Little Mermaid lied to you. You gotta be Ursula girl.

You gotta own your ish. You gotta tell people what you want and.

Take it, get it.

And not. Look.

I've had my nice girl era, okay?

I need y' all to stop being nice.

I think. I think it's important to be kind.

Stop being nice. Kind is setting boundaries. Nice is letting people do whatever they want.

Right? Yeah. Be kind. Don't be nice.

Okay, let me see what else is going on.

Yeah. The more you do for them, the less they like you.

Someone simply Krista said, the better you are to them, the more they don't like you. Mm, that's true.