Anwar White argues men avoid commitment not from fear of commitment itself but from fear of falling in love. When men fall in love, testosterone drops about 20 points, which weakens their ability to pursue high-focus goals like grad school or building a business.
Tia said, why do lots of men struggle with commitment? Or is it just me? It's not. Is it the interesting thing? So some of the guys, it is commitment, but most of the times it's not commitment. It's actually love. So. And I think I'm gonna do a video about this. But for the guys that struggle with commitment, it's probably a mommy issue. But most of the time, it's not about the commitment. It's about actually falling in love. So that's why a lot of guys won't. Won't put a lot of effort into this, because they're scared of falling in love. You have to understand that, like, when a guy falls in love, his testosterone drops. Yeah. So, like, it drops, like, 20 lower than what it normally is. And so that's why he doesn't know if he can live and, you know, basically achieve his goals with that lower level of testosterone, because it actually weakens him. That's the thing that I like. I think a lot of women don't necessarily understand or know, like, biologically. And so that's why, like, if you. If you've ever dated a guy that's, like, in grad school, med school, or things like that, he'll very rarely get into a relationship with you because he is focused on this really intense goal. Same with entrepreneurs. Right. And they need as much testosterone as possible to achieve that goal.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
