Anwar White argues that DL men turn to violence because they lack control over their identity and live defensively. He contrasts this with wealthy, stable men who avoid fights, and claims violent men are never millionaire men.
Love Sushi said. Why are DL men violent? Because they feel they are. They are not in control. They don't have any control of who they are. And so they are always on the defensive mode. And for them to feel like they are in control of their lives because they're never able to be their true selves, they will oftentimes be violent toward other people to gain a sense of control.
So anytime you see men that are randomly fighting for no reason.
Like, why are we overly violent here?
I know a lot of you, and this is like no shade. A lot of you are turned on by that. Turned on by men that pump up their chest and do all of that.
That's not husband behavior.
If a man does that, I need you all to understand that he doesn't have anything to lose.
Men that have millions, men that have houses, men that have careers, men that have reputations, would never get into a fight.
Would never even put themselves in a position to do so.
But I know that half y' all in here love that. Oh, my God. He's protecting me. That's my man. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
No.
No.
You have no control. You have no regulation.
Violent men are never millionaire men.
Now, they might have other people create their violence.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
