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Why do some girls always seem to end up in situations that don’t serve them?

Name: Why do some girls always seem to end up in situations that don’t serve them?
Uploaded: 2025-06-05T00:01:01+00:00
Duration: 1 min 4 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short monologue by Anwar White examining why some women repeatedly end up in unhelpful romantic situations. The speaker argues that certain women…

5 Jun 2025 · 1 min

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A short monologue by Anwar White examining why some women repeatedly end up in unhelpful romantic situations. The speaker argues that certain women "attract" predatory or controlling men because of inexperience or a strong desire for relationship outcomes, and advises focusing on present-moment enjoyment rather than results—advocating an "Olympic dating" approach (having multiple prospects: gold, silver, bronze).

Someone said, sometimes men can tell you're performing. They understand often when. When you're performing.
That's why.
If you know a girl that always gets screwed by guys or you know that girl that everything happens to her.
She is attracting that. Men are very intuitive. Predators know exactly who they're going to, who they're going to hone in on.
And they're going to hone in on those good girls, those nice girls.
Because they know.
You don't know left from right.
They know that they'll be able to control you because perhaps your lack of experience and because you want this so bad that you will compromise and bend over backwards for a desired result.
What I am asking you to do is f the result.
Focus on the here and now and have fun. And don't get, don't, don't flip out about each and every one of these guys.
That's why I always say you, you got to be Olympic dating. You got to have a gold, a silver and a bronze medalist.