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Why do you always end up in the lowest category of men after dates?

Name: Why do you always end up in the lowest category of men after dates?
Uploaded: 2024-03-19T11:53:10+00:00
Duration: 1 min 15 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White addressing why some women are judged negatively by men after dates. He cites clothing choices and conversational…

19 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White addressing why some women are judged negatively by men after dates. He cites clothing choices and conversational style (e.g., dominating talk) as common reasons men may see a woman as "not wifey material," and uses the recurring informal reference 'Coretta' as an archetypal ideal.

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Lil Ocean said, why have I always ended up in the lowest category with men after dates? Variety of different reasons, Right?
Sometimes. And I know this sounds really shitty, but.
I want to keep it real with you. If you dress a certain kind of way, he will think lower of you.
Right? He will think, this is not my Coretta Scott key.
No, he. He will think she wants attention from other men, so this woman is not safe. Right. And I will always have to fight off other men because, you know. So you will never be wifey material. Right? So sometimes it's the way that we dress. Other times it can just be your personality sometimes. No shade. If you talk a lot and you're dominating conversations.
He'S gonna think, oh, she doesn't give a shit about what I'm talking about. She doesn't want to hear me.
So.
I can connect with her in a different way. Not intellectually or emotionally, but physically.
Yeah. Okay. Y' all are saying, leave Coretta alone. I will leave her alone. Honey, her name has been conjured up way too much. But, girl, it just came. It just came to me, girl.