If dating feels like too much, you're not ready for it yet. One speaker compares learning to date to studying for the SAT: there are rules to master, and staying stuck in rom-com fantasies leaves you unprepared and vulnerable to being played.
Someone said, why do we still need men anyway? This is. This is too much. So here's the gag, ladies. If you are a woman that feels like, oh my God, there are so many rules, so many games. It's too much. I need you to know something. If you believe that, and I say this with love and respect, you. You are not ready to date. You're not ready to date. And if you're dating and you feel that way and you haven't done the work and you haven't studied men, you're going to get the rocked out of you in your dating life.
You're going to get played the hell out.
Because you said there were too many rules.
Let me tell you something.
When you were studying for that SAT to get into college, I'm pretty sure you were trying to figure out all the rules to get the right answers to get to your desired result.
It is the same thing here.
If you are still living in a romcom or a Disney movie, and I say this with love and respect.
You'Re going to need to come back to life, back to reality.
Do you hear me.
Girl?
Girl.
I love a good rom com too, girl. But I'm not gonna be the in the Hallmark movie who goes back to her small town looking for the guy who cuts trees.
What in.
Someone said Disney princess here. And guess what? None of those princesses have mamas who are going to tell them exactly what they needed to do and what they didn't need to do.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
