Why do you get ghosted often?
7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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Anwar White explains why people ghost you in dating and what you can do about it. He covers the psychology behind disappearing acts and offers practical advice for changing the pattern.

Anwar White explains why people ghost you in dating and what you can do about it. He covers the psychology behind disappearing acts and offers practical advice for changing the pattern.
Friend said, why do I get ghosted often? What am I doing wrong? Part of this dating game is understanding that you're going to get ghosted. That's part of the game. It's just like Monopoly. When you pass go, you get $200. To think that you're not going to get ghosted while you're dating is going to be unrealistic. You have to realize that people ghost because oftentimes they don't have emotional capacity. They don't have the skills to be able to communicate in a healthy, clear manner.
Yeah, okay. Some girl was saying, what are your top three tips for Afro Tech? First of all, I'm going to be at Afro Tech because I am creating a dating app and so I need some black engineers to engineer it for me. So what are we looking for when we are.
In Afro Tech or another conference?
First of all, you have to think about it this way.
The conference, we're just planting the seeds.
The after parties, that's where it goes down.
So if you are, let's say you're going to a conference for three days. Don't sleep with anyone on the first or the second night.
Okay?

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