Anwar White argues that everyday communication matters more than occasional grand gestures. Ignoring daily contact while chasing rare amazing moments leads to disappointment and insecurity. A committed partner shows up in the small stuff, not just the 10% moments.
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Anwar White
April 5, 2024
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Monkey said, what if he's not a constant texter but he's amazing in real life? Girl, that's the Sex on the city carry Mr. Big situation. I always say you have to prioritize the BDB between date behavior because when you're in a relationship, 90% of the time you won't be together. You have to think about this. You cannot prioritize the 10% that's amazing.
You will leave very disappointed. You will have 10% amazing and 90% wanting more. And then you'll think something's wrong with you and then start to become insecure and your confidence and your self esteem will decrease because of it.
I'm not saying he has to be a constant texter, but he needs to be reaching out to you every day with calls or texts if he is your person.
I don't, I don't accept the excuse that I'm not a good texter.
If, if a man puts his mind to it, he will do anything. If you are his woman, he will do anything to be with you, to talk to you, to connect with you, to engage with you.