Anwar White explores why people hesitate to commit to relationships, drawing on cultural references to Haitians and Nigerians to explain the patterns that hold us back.
Okay. Jackie said courted for two and a half months. Now he keeps asking, where do we stand? I want to take things slow. How do I reply?
By letting him know. Well, first of all, there's a reason why you want to take things slow. So one of the things that you're going to need to figure out is what's holding you back from. From saying yes to him.
Something's happening where you're saying no. You've got to get clear on what that is. Yeah, the Haitians like the big girls, too, but, girl.
I can't say too much about Haitians or Nigerians or they will hex me, girl.