Why do you see bad boys as physically attractive?

Lila said, I only find bad boys physically attractive. Hell, here's the thing. If you find bad boys physically attractive, that means that you don't feel safe in your own life. And you, you connote like that their bad boys are actually going to protect you from the scary and dangerous world outside, when in reality they're scary and dangerous, and they're going to create danger in your life while protecting you from the other danger. Right. So you kind of play yourself because they're dangerous. They're not. They're going to protect you from the outside dangers, but they're probably going to be more dangerous than the outside world.

This is an inner child wound. You have to find ways to. To feel your safety internally.