A short YouTube monologue (speaker: Anwar White) addressing why some women report attracting men who are married or in relationships. The speaker attributes this pattern primarily to appearance and behavior cues—notably scant clothing and heavy makeup—arguing these signal insecurity to men and can attract men who believe they can take liberties. The tone is advisory and observational rather than moralizing.
Lady Rojas said, why do the majority of the men I attract, why are they married or in relationships? Is it me? It might be you, if you are.
If you're scantily clad or if you wear a lot of makeup, that. For a lot of men, that'll attract men that are kind of like at a lower frequency, the men that can't control themselves physically. Right. And when a guy sees a woman with a lot of makeup, he knows that she's very insecure and that she doesn't think that she's beautiful and that he can kind of do whatever he wants with her. Yeah. So.
This is not me judging. I. I think it's important to understand. Do I got a lot of makeup on? Do I look clownish? No shade? Can you see more of my skin than. Than my clothes? If that's the case, a lot of married guys will try to hook you in because they think that they'll be able to do whatever they want with you. That 10 to 10%, 20% of the things that his wife won't do in the bedroom, he's going to try those things with you. Yeah. So something to think about. Am I saying change yourself? No. But I do think it's important to understand how some of these shady married guys think.