A dating coach says to test whether someone can actually be a good partner before deciding if you like them. Many women skip this and regret it around month two or three when the initial impression wears off.
The sophisticated Chaton said, I found this guy who I thought was amazing. He ghosted me. Here's the gag. It doesn't matter if you like a guy. It doesn't matter if you think he's amazing. He's got to think that you're amazing. That's why I always tell. I always tell my girls, like, I don't care if you like him. I don't care if you like him. Like, I care if he can do the job as a great partner and boyfriend for you. That's what matters. So please understand, we have to take our kind of. Some, like, at the beginning, or. Here's what I will say. I teach my clients to be in evaluation mode first. And once the guy actually shows that he has the skills, then we can start to figure out if we're a match or not. If we. If I like him or not. But we gotta, like, put that on the shelf for a little bit.
Most women will figure out, do I like him or not? First? And then figure out if he has the boyfriend skills. And that's why within two to three months, y' all are gagged. Who's this asshole, right? No.
No, you gotta flip it. Flip it on its head.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
