A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White discussing why many men don’t initiate on dating apps (speaker argues men face app burnout and are rejected around 90% of the time versus women ~30–40%), and advising that people who don’t want children should list that on their dating profile and bring it up on the first or second physical date.
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Someone asked, why don't guys initiate on the apps as much? They're not initiating because just like you are burnt out from the apps, they're burnt out from the apps as well. And do you understand that men actually are rejected 90% of the time? Women are rejected like 30, 40% of the time. So just think about it being rejected 90% of the time every day for years on end. Why would I even want to do that?
Why don't I just wait to see who is actually into me and then I'll engage? This is why you have a lot of people, a lot of men that aren't initiating as much.
Okay.
Yeah.
So that's that. When should I bring up not wanting children? That should be on a dating app. Profile for sure. And then I would probably discuss this around date one, physical date one or physical date two.
Yeah. Okay. I'm getting a lot of questions about what dating apps I should be on. So one of the things that I do in my program, and by the way, if you're interested in that, definitely go to the link in my bio and fill out a consultation application. And if it's accepted, we'll talk about all of this. But we will look at your, you, what you do, your size, your age, your weight, your color, and figure out what are the two best apps for you and then, you know, recommend those. So I'm not going to give blanket statements here because it actually doesn't necessarily serve you. Even your location matters. So it's one of the first things that we do in our program for women. Okay. That are entering into the program.
