Anwar White argues the talking stage is just passive pen pal behavior. Real courtship means the man takes the woman out weekly, she stays passive, and anything less is a reason to leave.
Moi said, how long is too long in the talking stage? So I.
In my mind, there is no such thing as a talking stage.
There's a courtship where he needs to court you. It's different than a talking stage. Talking is like you all are kind of just playing pen pals. Courting is where he comes to you. You do nothing, and he does everything.
It's a different mentality, and I want you to have it.
Okay?
He needs to be taking you out every week, and if he doesn't, he's gotta go.
But if you're in a talking state, you're gonna continue to talk, text, and be on the phone thinking that you're doing something, and you're not doing anything. But being a pen pal and probably being his counselor and emotional support.
You don't want to be in that sitch.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
