Anwar White explains why he advises against dating athletes or famous people. Fame makes you feel like a second class citizen, athletes bring constant pressure to improve, and high testosterone increases cheating risk.
Someone said, why are athletes so bad?
It's not that they're bad per se. I just think that I always encourage my ladies to be the star of their relationships, to be centered. And when you're with an athlete, when you're with an actor, when you're with someone that's famous, they will always be number one in the relationship.
Always. And you will be a second class citizen in that relationship. The other thing is athletes are always about improving. They're always about being better. That's what they do all day, every day. Let me get better. Let me run faster, let me jump higher, let me dunk harder. Let me catch the ball better, right? Let me hit it harder.
That will translate into your relationship. And he will want you to always be improving as well. And that can get.
That can get very, very, very.
Exhausting. And you can start to feel inadequate. And the thing is, he will.
When you're not improving at his level, he will find different people that he's looking for. Athletes will cheat. The thing about it is that one thing you have to understand about athletes that maybe you're not thinking about is that their testosterone is on high all the time. That's how they are performing. So you also have to understand that, like, their sexual appetites are often greater than your average guy because their testosterone is like, they need more.
They need more and more and more and more. So that's why they're cheating a lot as well.
Okay? So that's why I say, I wouldn't recommend it.
Okay?
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