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Why don't most men like the lights on?

Name: Why don't most men like the lights on?
Uploaded: 2024-02-08T15:10:05+00:00
Duration: 45 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short excerpt from a YouTube video by Anwar White (uploaded Feb 8, 2024) discussing why many men—particularly Black men—may ‘not like’ their mothers…

8 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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Short excerpt from a YouTube video by Anwar White (uploaded Feb 8, 2024) discussing why many men—particularly Black men—may ‘not like’ their mothers despite loving them. The speaker attributes this to mothers adopting 'masculine' roles that can emasculate sons or enmesh them as surrogate partners, and notes high single-parent rates in the 1990s as a contextual factor.

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Sid, the kid said, can you talk more about men who don't like their mom? Yeah, most men don't like their mom. Most black men don't like their mom. No shade. Even though they might be doing things for their mom, they don't. They love their mom, but they might not like them. And I'll do a, do a major video about this because most black women, most black moms are in their masculine, which emasculates their boys. That or they enmesh the boys and make their sons, especially if they're in a single parent household, into their surrogate partners. I think like single parent households in the 90s were like 60, 70% of households.
So please understand, this is like a major issue for black men.