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Why don't we need to argue with men?

Name: Why don't we need to argue with men?
Uploaded: 2024-01-30T15:13:03+00:00
Duration: 6 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A brief transcript excerpt of a YouTube monologue by Anwar White (uploaded Jan 30, 2024) where a listener asks how to tell if they're being demeaning or…

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A brief transcript excerpt of a YouTube monologue by Anwar White (uploaded Jan 30, 2024) where a listener asks how to tell if they're being demeaning or direct when disagreeing with a man. The speaker advises against arguing with men, suggesting women should state their views and move on. The speaker links repeated arguing to unresolved childhood dynamics (eg, authoritarian father) and recommends inner healing and maintaining dignity (“queen status”).

Nazira said. How do I know if I'm being demeaning versus direct when disagreeing with a man?
Give me an example. What are you disagreeing with him on? Because we really don't need to, like argue with a man at all. We get to share how we think and how we feel and keep it moving. We don't need to go back and forth with men. And if you find yourself doing that, please understand that you probably had authoritarian father who you never felt like you had a voice with, and you are trying to defend that little girl inside. And you don't need to do that. You need to heal her and stay in your queen status. Queens don't argue with anyone.
They don't do that.