Anwar White explores why you might not feel safe and how to build it from within. Instead of eliminating the need for safety, investigate where unsafety comes from and develop internal sources so you're not dependent on others, which can create imbalanced power dynamics.
Doula said, how do we overcome the need to feel safe? You shouldn't overcome that. You should always have the need to feel safe. But the question is, why don't you feel safe? What's the origin story for that? And how can you find safety within yourself now? Because here's the thing. Whatever we don't feel, oftentimes if we don't, if we're not able to fulfill that within ourselves, we will be overly dependent on men to provide that for us. And that can create a power dynamic that won't necessarily serve you.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
