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Why don't you need to explain to a man?

Name: Why don't you need to explain to a man?
Uploaded: 2024-03-05T13:48:43+00:00
Duration: 35 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short transcript excerpt from a speaker advising that women do not need to over-explain personal boundaries to men; instead they can simply state what…

5 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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Short transcript excerpt from a speaker advising that women do not need to over-explain personal boundaries to men; instead they can simply state what makes them comfortable (e.g., a two-month house rule) and stop offering trauma-driven justifications. The speaker frames over-explaining as a learned 'daughter' response and emphasizes asserting preferences with love and respect.

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Jan said. May you expand on the two month house rule. I may. If a man asks why, what do you say? Here's the thing, you don't have to explain anything to a man. You just share what makes you feel good. This is what makes me feel most comfortable. This is what I prefer. That's the answer. Many of you all get into this like I have to explain and over explain. It's a trauma response that's giving daughter energy talking to her parents. Y' all are grown now. You don't need to do that anymore. And I'm saying that with love and respect.