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Why don't you need to lose weight before finding a partner?

Name: Why don't you need to lose weight before finding a partner?
Uploaded: 2024-03-11T12:38:24+00:00
Duration: 40 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short monologue urging self-acceptance for people who feel they must lose weight before dating. The speaker argues that mindset and self-concept—not…

11 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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A short monologue urging self-acceptance for people who feel they must lose weight before dating. The speaker argues that mindset and self-concept—not weight—are the main barriers to forming relationships, using examples (e.g., reality-TV observations) and emphatic reassurance.

Poison. I said, why do I feel like I have to lose weight before I can date? Because you're not accepting yourself, Poison Ivy. You need to understand that.
Your guy is going to love you through thick and thin. And here's the thing. You think that, oh my God, if I lose weight, everything is going to be amazing or much better. It's not.
It's not the weight that might be holding you back, girl. It's your mindset and it's your thought about yourself and your self concept. Right? I watch 600 pound life all, all the time. Girl. All of them have men.
It's not about the weight, my love. Yeah.
And that's on period.