A short YouTube monologue (single speaker) arguing that a woman’s hair style/color is irrelevant to her worth or desirability; the speaker emphasizes self-confidence and doing things for oneself rather than to please men. The speaker warns against taking dating/advice from men who are single and not ready for relationships, comparing that to taking health advice from a smoker.
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I am official. Cherry Heart says this. White men like chocolate women with color hair, like copper or ginger hair. They like. They like women who like them, who let them, like, give them the green light, let them know that they're open to such a man. Doesn't matter about the hair, girl. You could have an Afro. You could have braids, you could have weave. You could have green hair for all I care, right? Giving Dr. Seuss up in here.
Girl, doesn't matter. And here's the thing. It doesn't matter what men like. It matters about what you feel comfortable giving and, like, what. What makes you confident and sexy and safe. Yeah, we don't do things for men. We do things for ourselves. And if the men love it, great. If they don't, so be it. Yeah. I just want to offer something because what I'm seeing a lot of, and it's really kind of, like, disturbing me, is, like, a lot of these guys are having, like, opinions, and all of y' all are, like, taking these opinions as Bible. What I want to let you know is that most of these guys who have opinions are single, and they're single because they're not ready for relationships. So you're literally taking advice from guys who are not, like, ready for a relationship and don't have the skills to be in a, like, a healthy. Healthy and safe relationship. It's like taking health advice from a smoker.
Right? Like, girl, what you want? It's like, what are you doing?
So stop taking advice from smokers, girl. Stop taking health advice from smokers. They don't know what they're talking about.
Yeah. Let me put a book over here so you can. I can get my angles right, honey. Okay?
