Anwar White argues you should practice banter with everyone, not just people you find attractive. The skill becomes automatic only through repetition, so treating some people as practice and others as prizes backfires. Banter has to come from you, not depend on who you're talking to.
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Someone asked, even if they're ugly or broke. Especially if they're ugly or broke. Here's the thing, y'. All. You want to practice on those guys. If they're old and crusty, practice on them. It's all practice so that you're ready for the main event. You're ready for the championship and the finals. So that when a hot guy comes to you, you're already well practiced and you already know what to do and say because you know how to. This is why I can come at you like this. Because I do this all day, every day. And I want you to be in the mode where you're doing it all day, every day as well. So that when your guy comes, you don't act like a freshman girl in high school talking to the senior varsity quarterback.
Yeah. Someone said, practice then run away. Practice and then say, I gotta go.
Someone said, can I summarize the homework? No.
Someone said, I am a freshman.
I love it.
Lala said, ah, practice on the ones I don't want. Brilliant. Exactly. Why is that important? It's important because this bantering, this flirt, it has to come from you. When you only save this for the guys that you think are hot, then you are centering men. And these men are dictating what you do, what you say, how you act, how you behave. And it's not coming from you.
All of this has to come from you.
Do you understand? If you're only withholding this for the hottest guy, for the tallest guy, for the most light skinned guy, and one, you won't be practiced. But two, you're centering him already and you've already lost.
You already lost.
He already has control over you.
Did I lie, Brianna, when I said the most light skinned guy? Because some of us still go there.
