Dating coach Anwar White tells women in masculine roles like firefighting to seek partners with more feminine energy, such as nurses and teachers. He says dating has gotten roughly 20% harder each year since the pandemic and pushes proactive spring dating and app use.
Okay, someone said I'm a female firefighter. I know. That's right. 100k plus NYC and the men hate on me so much intimidation everywhere. What should I do? Here's the thing. And this is no shade.
Girl. You probably stacked. You probably in your masculine energy, and you're probably going to need someone to yin to your yang. So you're gonna need to look for guys that are more feminine. And that works too, by the way. Ladies, if you're in your masculine and you want to stay in your masculine, that is totally fine. It just means you're gonna look, you're gonna need guys that are nurses, guys that are social workers, guys that are teachers.
That's what you're gonna look for. You are probably looking for guys that are like the other firefighters.
That's probably not going to be your lane, girl. That's not going to work. Masculine. And masculine doesn't work. Y' all just going to fight and bump heads and try to control each other.
So, girl, get yourself a teacher and go happily ever after after. Okay? Okay. By the way, it's springtime and the men are springing. So if you're not out now, you're. You're going to be missing out. This is when things start to get hot, literally and figuratively. So I need you out and about and I. I need you on the apps and I need you living your life like it's golden, okay? If you're not, if you're still working and living from home, girl, you're missing out.
Why do I say this? I've been doing this dating coaching thing for a while now, and I will tell you, ever since the pandemic, dating gets 20% harder every year. And I don't say that to scare you. I say that so that you understand what the landscape of dating is looking like. It's getting harder and harder. And so no shade. I want y' all to meet your person this year because. Because next year is going to be harder. And the year after that, it's going to be harder. And before you know it, most of these guys are going to have AI girlfriends and you are going to go lezi or play Golden Girls, which if you want that, that's fine, honey. No shade. But that's why I'm saying, like, now is the time to actually date. Date hard. Get your, get in, get out, turn yourself about, get your guy. That's the name of my program. That's the name of my business. It's if you want to do this, y' all crack it up more seriously. Do that deeper work. Go to the link in my bio book, a consultation call, and we're going to get you right. We get women into relationships every other day. That's what it looks like. Because the work works. So if you're interested in that, make it happen.
I have my little bit. I'm. I have a little kombucha, honey.
I'm in my. Am I My white woman era, honey, and my kombucha. I'm giving gluten free. I'm giving vegan. I'm giving all of it.
Don't listen to me. Listen to me about dating stuff. Don't listen to me about anything else, okay?
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
