Anwar White argues most women don't have a formal dating strategy, leaving them at a disadvantage. He traces this to parents not teaching dating skills and offers paid programs plus free videos on YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram to teach strategy and relationship healing.
A lot of people say they're not liking the apps. Here's the thing.
A lot of women don't have strategies for apps. So let me know. Do you have an online dating strategy? If so, give me a thumbs up. If not, give me a hashtag nostrategy. Like, do you have step one, step two, step three, step four? Because this is what I teach in my program.
Queen said it was hard getting in the program. I was denied. Can you tell.
You why I'd be denied?
It was probably based on your application. I'm seeing a lot of no strategies, ladies. A lot of no strategies. Let me offer something to you, and it is this. I'm pretty sure that you are strategic in every part of your life.
So I think it is really telling that you don't have a dating strategy. I also think that.
A lot of women are programmed and conditioned not to have a strategy, and it keeps them disempowered in love and dating. And so one of the things that I do in my program is give my clients an amazing strategy so that.
They know exactly what to do every step of the way. Because most of the time, most of our parents, mothers specifically, don't really teach us how to date. Let me know in the chat, were you taught how to date by your mom? And don't be fast and don't get pregnant doesn't count.
Yeah.
Let me know.
Okay. I'm seeing a lot of no's.
So let me. I'm saying this because I think it's important for us to understand that you guys are being very hard on yourselves and you are never taught how to do this. So I just want to give you all the grace and all the compassion. I always say it's like going to law school, but then you're expected to.
Perform surgery. Make it make sense.
It doesn't work like that.
So I see you. I hear you. This is why I do what I do, and this is why I give away so much. A lot of my free stuff is better than most people's paid stuff, honey.
Yeah. So I can tell you this. If you watch every video that I give, that I provide, and I have many on my YouTube, many on TikTok, many on IG. It'll get you basically there, honey.
My program is really about doing more of the deeper work so that when you get there, when you get the guy, you know how to navigate the relationship and you're. You're coming from a more healed place.
Okay? Jamila said your free stuff is invaluable. Thank you, girl.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
