Anwar White explains why becoming emotionally attached to partners who are only good physically can damage your well-being. He advises women to find relaxation and fulfillment on their own rather than staying in relationships that aren't actually good for them.
Someone said, girth me down.
Girth equals birth.
You gonna get pregnant, girl.
Here's what I want to offer to the ladies, because a lot of the girls and I want to be a little bit more serious now. A lot of the girls want to get deep down.
And what I want to offer to you is oftentimes we will want to. To get deep down, because it is, like, the only way that we will be able to kind of let go. Right. And lose control and allow ourselves to just be. And so I want to offer to you that, like, it is your job to be able to, one, obviously, understand your body, but two, be able to let go and have a level of ease to your body, to your mind, to your spirit.
On your own. So you don't need that to get to that level, to get to that place where you are open and free and flowing.
Yeah.
So I wanted to offer that because I know a lot of the girls out here want that because it allows them to get to a place that they can get to on their own.
Yeah.
That you're using D to relax you, and you need to find relaxation in other ways.
So I wanted to offer that because some of us are using it as a badge of honor. And what you're telling me is that you're stressed the fuck out and you don't know how to have control over your life.
So.
I'm speaking on it because I've been there and I've done that.
And.
Doesn'T serve you because the guys that will D you down are the most dangerous guys ever.
Girl. D stands for dangerous. Yes, honey, crazy is the best sex.
But it is dangerous. It's toxic.
So that's why I'm saying I'd rather you, like, relax now.
Be able to relax so that you're not desiring that dangerous D.
Someone said. No. Broke is the best sex, girl. Broke is dangerous. We're talking the same language here.
Someone said, amar. Why is that? Why is good D bad for your health?
Because.
The guys that are really great. Okay, so here's what I want to offer to you. The poorest guys probably have the best D.
And the guys that are poor are the guys that literally have nothing going for themselves.
So they've been able to perfect, perfect their stroke, girl.
And then what happens is they give you that O. And then when you get that O, your O and the feelings and the chemicals that you have are associated with that man. And then you become chemically bonded to him.
And then it's a rap girl.
Then it's then you're gone.
Then you on the side of a milk carton, girl.
People are saying yes to this because most of us have been through it. Yeah, girl Lost your mind.
You feel like you going through the change, girl and you 25 years old.
Girl.
Cat can't even sit right, just fidgeting for no reason.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
