Anwar White explains why hookup culture dominates college: skewed gender ratios give men more power. He advises women to socialize off-campus, treat college dating as low-stakes practice, and never leave parties with someone new.
In the midst of all the hookup culture in college, what's the best way to navigate finding a partner? Here's the thing. It's always going to be a hookup culture in college because the gender ratio is off, so men have more power in college. It's like, you know, and especially if you are a black woman, that's going to be basically 2 to 1, unfortunately. So what does it mean to find a partner? It means start talking to people outside of college. It means don't take them too seriously and take that opportunity to learn about yourself, girl. Right? Flirt, have fun. Here's what I tell the girls in college. When you're at a frat party or you're out of any other party, girl, never leave with a man.
Because it's such a tight knit community. Then the other guys will see that and never want to talk to you because they think, oh, she's probably with that guy. Never leave with them. Get somebody's number and then message them afterward. But never be seen leaving a location with a man. That will keep your stock high. Yeah.
Just a little bit of something something, girl.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
