A short YouTube monologue by a coach (Anwar White) explaining the importance of identifying and leaning into your personal flirt style rather than imitating a stereotypical "va va voom" persona. The speaker lists several flirt styles (playful, traditional, intellectual, physical), links the difficulty flirting to feeling unsafe, and offers practical encouragement to flirt authentically with what you have.
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Okay, So I was talking about.
Meeting people online. So one of the things that I do on my program is I help each lady understand, like, what their natural flirt style is. Because a lot of you girls. No shade. I think a lot of women are taught that the way that you flirt is by being this va va voom siren vixen. And many of us are not that girl.
So you've got to figure out what your flirt style is.
Someone said, I don't know how to flirt. Many of us, and I was telling this to my clients a few weeks ago when we were going through this flirt style quiz. Many of us don't know how to flirt because we don't feel safe. Safe inside or safe enough to flirt. Everyone has their own flirt style.
Whether it's being playful, whether you're more traditional, whether you're more intellectual, whether you're more physical. You've got to figure out which one yours is and lean into that. Most of y' all are not va va voom.
So don't try to give va va voom.
Especially for the smart girls out there.
Flirt with this.
Everybody can flirt with these. My little A cups, girl. I can flirt with them. Honey. I give a V neck, girl. I'm already flirting with my A cups.
You got to know how to flirt with what you got and what your lane is.