Anwar White explains that switching dating preferences is easy, but what matters is understanding your own interpersonal energy: whether you lean masculine (doer, strategic) or feminine. Find partners with complementary energy, not the same as yours.
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I love that says, how can I make the switch from dating men to women? Girl. Two clicks on a dating app, go to gender you're interested in and click female, girl, straight up. You know what the gag is? The gag is there's not much difference. Here's what I know. It's going to be really important for you to understand just like what your energy is. And that has nothing to do with gender. Like, you see me, girl, I am. You would never know it, girl, because my voice is like a valley girl and my mannerisms are femme, femme, femme, femme, femme. But girl, I'm in my masculine energy. I am type A, I am a doer, I am strategy in my same sex relationship. I'm in my masculine. So what you've got to figure out is are you more in your femme or in your masculine? And find the yin to your yang. Yeah. Because relationships are about compliments. They're not about clones. So you've just got to figure out are you in your mask or are you more in your femme? And based on that, fine, women that are the complement of whatever energy that you're about. Okay.