A short monologue (YouTube transcript) urging women to trust their intuition—especially when evaluating a partner’s relationship with a female friend. The speaker advises arranging in-person group interactions to observe behavior, emphasizes the power of female intuition (’heart and gut’), and encourages women to actively use that sense when it comes to love and relationships.
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Polyester said thoughts on dating a guy with.
A girl best friend. They have history or maybe intimate.
Have you been able to observe them in real life? Because your intuition will tell you everything when you're in the physical space of them. So if you haven't, like, here's what you do, girl. Be like, oh, my God, we should all get lunch together. Yeah, be that girl. Like.
More the merrier. Big, happy family. And then when you're at lunch, observe the hell out of them. Yeah, your intuition will tell you what the hell's going on with that. Trust it. Yeah.
You know, all y' all know.
That's what I was talking about. The power of being a woman. This female intuition that you have, girl, if I had it, girl.
Honey, I would be.
I don't even know, girl. Oprah, honey. Michelle Obama, girl.
You gotta use that. No shade. And this is why I work with smart and successful women, because they try to use this. This will actually work against you when it comes to love. You got to use this, and you got to use this.
I call it the hut, the heart and the gut. That intuition, girl, never steer you wrong.
I think I have a little bit of it just because I'm in that masculine and feminine energy. But, girl, you have it all, girl.
And your job is to access it. Yeah. And if you are a woman of color and you have grown up in an environment where you had to turn off your feelings, it is harder to access it. That's why I do the work that I do to help my clients learn how to align with it. It.