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Why is it more important how you see yourself than the opinion of the guy?

Name: Why is it more important how you see yourself than the opinion of the guy?
Uploaded: 2024-02-13T14:58:20+00:00
Duration: 45 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short monologue from a YouTube video (Anwar White, Feb 13, 2024) advising listeners—primarily women—about self-perception and empowerment in dating. The…

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Short monologue from a YouTube video (Anwar White, Feb 13, 2024) advising listeners—primarily women—about self-perception and empowerment in dating. The speaker warns against prioritizing a man’s opinion, emphasizes that you evaluate men at every step, and that maintaining your own standards gives you the final say (example: accept a coffee date but refuse later requests you’re uncomfortable with). The message stresses boundary-setting and avoiding a disempowered mindset.

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K. Beauty said, wouldn't accepting coffee dates make them see you settle for less? No.
No.
You have to understand something. You're going to be evaluating these men every step of the way. You're so hyper focused on how they view you, girl. Doesn't matter how they view you. It matters how you view yourself and how you hold yourself. They can have whatever opinion that they have of you, right? Guess what? If they go on a coffee, they take you on a coffee date and then the next time they, they say, okay, now let's go to McDonald's.
You get to say now.
Say no, that doesn't. I don't feel comfortable going there.
Doesn't matter what they say. It's about, you've got the last word, girl. And if you're hyper focused on their opinion, you, you've already lost.
You've already put yourself in a disempowered state in this, in this dating game.
A man's opinion doesn't matter.