A short conversational clip (multi-speaker) arguing that women should acknowledge and affirm their male partners — even brief, sincere praise (15 seconds, maybe a kiss) — because it makes men feel valued and encourages them to give more. The speakers give examples (gifts, compliments), note some people lack this upbringing, and advise practicing affectionate acknowledgment to build healthier relationships.
Chapters
Earth sign said Lord with all these.
Gems he's dropping, why are there so.
Little roses or taps?
Tap him up. Well, I know, girl. You know, it is what it is, girl.
Usually I have a thousand people in here, but I think TikTok's just warming it up, and my regulars aren't necessarily coming in.
But thank you for acknowledging that.
That's what I'm talking about, girl. You just got to acknowledge a man.
And now I'm feeling all gooey inside.
And now I feel like I want.
To give more, because that's the thing.
Your job in a relationship is just to inspire your man.
Oh, my God.
Thank you so much. I really appreciate the fact that you've done this. I feel really cherished and valued.
You make me feel like a queen.
And for many of y', all, y' all don't know how to do this because you never had it growing up. You've had that tough love.
You've had coach love, you know, like coaches and sports. So you like you. For many of you, like, it feels like overly flowery language, but that's what your guy needs.
And you are going to need to be in the practice of doing that if you want to be in a healthy relationship.
Because I know that when you do that, girl, you know how they say in church, like, you know, given, it shall be given unto you, Right?
You give a little bit of that, girl, he's going to give it to you tenfold, and he'll never complain.
That's why you see some of these.
Girls out here, and they're getting everything that they want.
And most of them are not even sleeping with these man. Girl, you think, oh, my gosh, you must be giving it up every night.
Most of them are not doing it.
You know what they're doing every time?
Like, they're.
They're making a big deal out of it.
Oh, my God.
Thank you so much. Oh, my God. I can't believe you got me this Cartier watch. Oh, my God. It's so beautiful. I can't believe you thought about me this way. This is amazing.
You make me feel so special. You are an Amazing man.
Girl.
15 seconds. That's all he needed.
And maybe a kiss.
Okay.
I hope this is helpful.
I hope this is not going on deaf ears, because this is such a disconnect.
And this is the difference between being in a relationship for four months and being in a relationship for four plus years.