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Why is it not important why the man does those things?

Name: Why is it not important why the man does those things?
Uploaded: 2024-09-13T00:00:30+00:00
Duration: 38 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White delivering relationship advice to women: stop asking why a man behaves a certain way and instead "honor the…

13 Sept 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White delivering relationship advice to women: stop asking why a man behaves a certain way and instead "honor the what" — accept his actions, focus on your feelings and safety, and avoid losing yourself by seeking reasons. The speaker repeats key lines for emphasis.

Yeah. Let me offer something to the ladies. If you're asking why questions, you're asking the wrong questions. You're doing too much.
I could give you 50 different answers for a why question. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter why men do this or why did they do that.
What matters is making sure that you are honoring the what and not the why. Whatever this man decides to do, honor it, Accept it. You don't need a reason.
What you need is to accept the reality of whatever has happened. Check in with yourself. Your responsibility is your feelings and your safety.
When you're asking, why is he doing this? You've already lost the game, girl. You've already lost yourself.
Yeah.