Why is it that most men don’t like women?

Let me just say something really quickly.

Because I think that this is very important, and I think most of you already know this, that most men don't like women.

Most women. Men don't like women. They're attracted to them, but they don't necessarily like them. And unfortunately, most of us are actually very used to that.

Because.

Most of our parents.

Didn'T like us, but they loved us.

I think I've said too much.

I think I've said too much.

They loved us, but they didn't like us.

And unfortunately, because that is your bonding pattern, you will be. You will continuously be attracted to the men that don't like you.

I'm sorry.

But when your mom or dad comes home from work, then they start yelling at you.

That's not like.

They work for you. They give you, you know, food. They give you the. They give you the.

The place to sleep in. That's. But did they hang out with you for no reason? Did they. Did they talk to you when you know and just say, hey, girl, what's going on? How are things going? Hey, let's talk about your friends that are happening at school. Like, what boys do you like? What's going on?

Pretty sure you didn't have that. And I'm sharing this with you because if you don't have that, that's going to be your benchmark. That's going to be your familiar. So when a guy doesn't do that, you're going to be like, okay, this is familiar. He's not really asking me about what's going on with me. He's just doing things for me. And that's enough because that's what my parents did.

Yeah, when your parents say, I'm not your little friend, well, that really sucks, because guess what? I need a friend.

That's part of partnership, intimate partnership.

So part of this work and, you know, part of the work that we do in my program is really breaking down these parental relationships and breaking patterns that you are bringing into your romantic and dating life and breaking them.

Cutting them off.