Short YouTube monologue (speaker identified as Gail Martin Grob) addressing a viewer question about an ex who keeps liking social media posts. The speaker argues that liking posts usually signals a desire for access or monitoring—not genuine romantic interest—and uses "hate-watching" as an analogy before advising viewers to unbond and move on so they can find a future partner.
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Gail Martin Grob. Martin Grob said, my ex is still liking all my posts. Does that mean he's still interested? I want him back. No, girl. No girl. I just did a video about exes.
The reason why your ex is doing that is because he's probably seeing you glow up, and he wants to take that glow up from you.
It doesn't mean he likes you. If he liked you, he would be with you.
He's coming back to you, and he's doing that because he wants to see if he has access to you. And when someone does that, it means that he hates you.
In the video, I say, you know, I also hate watch things. I hate watched Housewives of Atlanta and Housewives of Potomac for these last couple of seasons. I didn't like it, but I still watched it.
Hate watched. And just like that, didn't like it, but I still watched. It.
Doesn't mean that he's interested. It means that he wants access to you.
And it. It can feel.
Like he still likes you. But please understand, your future person would never be an ex.
He would never put himself in that situation.
Your job is to separate, to release yourself, to unbond with him. You will never find your person if you're deep, if you're still connected with him.