Anwar White argues men avoid women rated as 9s or 10s because insecurity kicks in. When a woman can have anyone, a man feels he can't be everything to her, so he opts out.
Why don't men want nines and tens? Great question. They don't want nines and tens because nines and tens.
They want. They'll never feel secure in having a woman that's a 9 or 10 because she can have any man that she wants to. This is why men want you to have a quote, unquote, lower count. Because if you have a higher count, it means that they can't control you. They. That means that you are hot shit in the marketplace and you can go wherever the hell you want to go. So men don't want a 9 or a 10 because they know that ultimately they won't. They can't be everything to you.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
