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Why should we ask clarifying questions and never assume?

Name: Why should we ask clarifying questions and never assume?
Uploaded: 2024-02-19T14:45:31+00:00
Duration: 16 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short monologue (YouTube video) advising people—especially women—to ask clarifying questions in dating instead of making assumptions about partners. Uses…

19 Feb 2024 · 0 min

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Short monologue (YouTube video) advising people—especially women—to ask clarifying questions in dating instead of making assumptions about partners. Uses an example: a TikTok post asking if it’s a red flag when a man’s longest relationship was eight months; encourages probing possible reasons (e.g., caregiving responsibilities) rather than judging lack of experience.

Regular girl. TikTok said, is this a red flag? Dating a guy that says his longest relationship was eight, eight months? We get to ladies, we get to ask them clarifying questions like, well, why do you think that was? Why do you think that is? Yeah.
So you can get into it instead of assuming why that is. Okay.
Everyone has different, like, dating histories. I sometimes work with women that are amazing women that don't have a lot of relationship experience. Doesn't mean that they're bad, doesn't mean that they are horrible. Means they don't have experience. And there can be a variety of different explanations in terms of why that is. He might not. He might have had to take care of his. His, you know, elderly parents and didn't, you know, take time to, like, really engage in it. There's a variety of different reasons. I'm not saying that is one of them. I'm just saying it's a possibility. Your job is to understand what that is. Yeah.