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Why should women stress men out?

Name: Why should women stress men out?
Uploaded: 2024-03-15T12:51:42+00:00
Duration: 51 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) arguing that women should "stress men out" by setting strong boundaries and showing vulnerability. The speaker…

15 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) arguing that women should "stress men out" by setting strong boundaries and showing vulnerability. The speaker explains that boundaries create stress because men will try to discover and respect them, and vulnerability creates stress because many men are unfamiliar with holding emotional space; this stress is framed as beneficial, increasing potential for bonding. The tone is conversational and advisory.

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Mui said. Why should women stress men out? Women should stress men out. When I say stress men out, I think people are talking about, like, being a terror. What I mean is actually having a lot of boundaries. Boundaries will stress him out, and being vulnerable will stress him out. Boundaries, because he will always try to figure out what your boundaries are, and the stress will be with maintaining those boundaries and being respectful of them. Vulnerability, distress comes when you have to hold space for a woman. Most guys don't know how to do that, so. And they're not used to doing it because most guys like the way that they interact with their other guy friends is just by doing things together, but not necessarily talking about everything with each other. So having a guy do this will actually stress him out. But it's good stress because that stress will actually, again, increase the potential of bonding.