Anwar White explains why Black women should be direct when interested in white men: they might assume you prefer Black men. He shares practical signals like sustained eye contact, smiling, and checking if his feet point toward you, but says directness cuts through the guesswork.
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Michaela said, I'm a black woman interested in a white man. How do I get him to know without directly shooting my shot? Sometimes you're going to have to be direct with some of these white boys.
Because.
The white guys don't think that you like them. Because so many black women are just hyper focused on black men and have that. This dying loyalty to them that they just think, oh, she's a black woman, so she's just into black men. That's it. Because 90% of the marriages are with black men. So you're gonna have to let it be well known that you're into him.
Mad eye contact, mad smiling. You're gonna have to have conversations with him, right? And if you don't know if he likes you, check his feet. If his feet are pointing toward you, it means that he likes you. He'll. A white man that's interested in you will have just like a normal conversation with you. And you'll think that he's just being a nice guy. No, it means that he's flirting with you and he. You. If you're talking to a white guy for more than like, two or three minutes, it's because he likes you.
I say that, I say this with like, mad love and respect, but, like, there's no reason that a white man needs to talk to us.
And that's no shade. But I'm just, I'm saying that to say, like, if he does, it means that he likes you, that he's interested. And catch that tea.
