A short YouTube advice monologue (by Anwar White) addressing whether to tell a new partner that this is your first sexual/relationship experience. The speaker advises full honesty, reassures the asker (normalizing late blooming), and recommends communicating limits so the partner can proceed gently and help navigate intimacy.
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Alicia said how to tell my new partner. I've never physically been with women. I'm a late bloomer. Fresh out the I think closet. Closet door. Girl.
Be super honest. Here's the thing. I think sometimes people think that people are going to harshly or negatively judge us if, like, we don't have a lot of relationship experience or sexual experience or what have you. Your person's not going to think twice of it and is just going to appreciate the honesty that you've told to them. Ultimately. Yeah, look, I think it's actually best that you tell her because what will happen is now she'll know how to navigate, like, sexual sexually with you. Right. If she feels like you're an expert, she might go at you hard and in the pink, girl, you might not be ready for that. No shade. Yeah. So you get to let her know, hey, I don't have a lot of experience here, and so I'd like to take it really slow, all of that. And by the way, no late blooming. Right. We all have our own pace, and I'm glad that you are at the pace that you are now, okay?