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Why should you be open to things you never wanted to?

Name: Why should you be open to things you never wanted to?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:43:44.276888
Duration: 10 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A 31-year-old woman says she wants to marry a godly man with no kids, but doesn't want children herself. Anwar White tells her that love rarely matches…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A 31-year-old woman says she wants to marry a godly man with no kids, but doesn't want children herself. Anwar White tells her that love rarely matches what you planned for, and shares that six women this month found relationships by staying open to what felt right instead of sticking to their list.

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Alice Ali from the Valley. Love that name. As a Valley girl myself, I'm 31, don't want or have kids, but want marriage with godly man who has zero or one kids. Please help.
So are you. Are you dating him now? Or is that what you're just looking for and wanting and manifesting and talking to God about?
Here's the thing, here's the cruel joke about love and dating and all of that. It's not going to look like the way that you wanted it or imagined it to look like. As someone who gets people into relationship every week. This week I had three ladies get into a relationship in my program and one move in with her guy. Last week it was another three ladies. Like I always ask them, is this your type? They always say, no, I never thought I would be with this person, but I'm the happiest that I've ever been. So I want you to open yourself up to something that might not look the way that it you wanted it to, but it feels the way that you've always wanted it to feel, okay?