Anwar White argues that blocking exes and random men protects your mental health and future relationships. Keeping them around creates insecurity and drama that gets in the way of finding the right person. Blocking is how you live as if you're already in the relationship you want.
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Fatima said, this guy disrespected me on podcast. Now he's back wanting to talk to me. Lock, lock.
I'm always really amazed when, when women are telling me that, like this guy is coming back and he's trying to do X, Y and Z. Why haven't you blocked these men? Blocking is a very healthy way, a healthy part of dating. You're not a bitch, you're not mean. Blocking and dating is a very healthy boundary.
Like, I need you to understand this. When, when you are still allowing random men to have access to you, you are hurting your ability to find your person. And I need you to think about it like this.
When.
When you're in a relationship, do you think your man is going to want all these other men having access to you? Let's say you're on a date with your man and you get a random text from.
Javante.
While you're on a date with him. Girl, all you're doing is bringing up, creating insecurity, disconnection and drama in your relationship. You have to really create.
A life as if you are already in your dream relationship. You wouldn't have, you wouldn't allow these randoms to come in your life like that.