Anwar White argues you should block exes who keep contacting you after a breakup. They're not interested in commitment, just access. Ask yourself: would my future husband do this? If the answer is no, block.
Feminine fuel. Said a white boy I met on Hinge last year broke up with me and keeps dming me on ig. He wants a booty call from you.
I would. If y'. All. If you don't talk to a guy anymore, block him. You're allowing all of these guys to have access to you after they have legitimately told you that I'm not choosing you. You've got to block them.
When you don't hear from him in a week, when he says, oh, I'm just looking for friends with benefits, when he, you know, says, I'm busy.
Walk and move on. Find your person. Because here's the thing. When you don't, what happens is they're gonna always come back.
They're gonna always come back.
Because men always want to know if they have the option of you.
Most of them are not serious. A lot of women think like, oh, my God, he's reaching back out to me. He must really like me. No, he's reaching out to you to see if he still has access to you. You. There's a difference.
Block it.
They don't. They don't like you.
Understand this. If they liked you and they loved you, they would never be in a position to have to reach back out to you. And if you don't understand this, I want you to ask yourself a question over and over and over again, and it is this. Would my future husband do this?
Would my future husband do this? And if the answer is no, block.
Yeah.
A lot of women are like, oh, my God, he's looking at my IG stories. Girl, I hate watch a lot of stuff.
I've hate watched the last few seasons of Housewives of Atlanta and Housewives of Potomac.
It doesn't mean anything.
You hear me?
It means nothing.
A lot of people.
Hate. Watch all your social media. They won't like it, but they want to just see what's going on with you to see if they're. If they're still better than you or not or if you're better than them.
Right?
So if you catch them checking your social media or anything, that's what they're trying to do. They're trying to figure out, has she leveled up without me or not. And when you do level up without them, that's when they're gonna come back because they're trying to take your level up.
For their own.
Get it? Got it. Good.
You're gonna have to block, because they will never, ever, ever block you.
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