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Why should you change your mindset when it comes to this topic?

Name: Why should you change your mindset when it comes to this topic?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:43:26.210062
Duration: 22 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) advising a mindset shift in dating: stop waiting to be chosen and adopt the role of the chooser. The speaker…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) advising a mindset shift in dating: stop waiting to be chosen and adopt the role of the chooser. The speaker argues you don't need to 'show' men you want a serious relationship because they already know; instead, men must demonstrate seriousness. The clip emphasizes agency and reversing the passive stance in dating.

Amaya said, how do you show you want to be serious, not just having fun? Men know that if you're dating that you want. That you want to be serious. They already know that. So you don't have to show them anything. They have to show you that they're serious. Right. This is about. This is about being the chooser and not waiting to be chosen. So this is a mindset shift that you're going to have to take. Yeah.