Short spoken-word piece (YouTube transcript) arguing that dating average-looking men (“mid” guys) is preferable because they’ll be more reliable, helpful in daily life, and more effortful in sex and relationships than very attractive men. The speaker frames this as practical long-term advice and a ‘cheat code.’
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Quintessentially Q said. My grandma said don't talk to light skinned men or very attractive men either. Honey, the gag is, and this is what people don't, don't want to get into. But I'm gonna tell the tea because I think y' all need to know this. Y' all need to get with mid guys.
Mid. Honey, mid is where it's at. Honey. The mid guys will work for you in and outside of the bedroom. A lot of girls are like, he, I'm. Girl, he needs to be a 9 or a 10. Girl, the gag is 20, 30, 40 years from now, you're not going to care about what he looks like. You're going to care about that he takes you to your doctor's appointments, that he makes you coffee every day, he cooks your meals, he fixes everything around the house.
Honey.
Mid. Honey, that's girl, that's the cheat code. Everybody's trying to get like, you know, hot. The cheat code is mid, mid.
And then everything else top. Yeah, mid looks. Because guys that with the mid looks, girl, they really gonna work hard in bedroom and they probably satisfy you more than the pretty boy. The pretty boy is just gonna stand there, look at themselves in the mirror, not, not hit the walls, girl, no shade. Girl, most of them, most of the hot guys aren't really putting it down like they need to because they think that they're the prize. Anyway, let me know what your tea is. Girl. But.
Mid, girl, mid.
I'm trying to tell y', all that's girl, I'm trying to give you the formula.