Anwar White says unemployed or emotionally unstable people aren't ready to date. You need to save yourself first, become soft and self-caring, set boundaries, and find joy in your own life before looking for a partner.
Artsy gal said Anwar. Do you give discounts? Unemployed girly at the moment, I don't generally give discounts. Here's what I want to offer to you. If you're unemployed and you've been unemployed for a while, you're probably not ready to date. You want to be in a place where you're feeling stable, where you feel like you don't have to rely on anyone for money, right? There are a lot of ladies that have either money wounds or are unemployed or underemployed that are dating to try to find a meal ticket because they're looking for someone to save them. Here's the gag. You need to save yourself. You need to be your own hero. You need to be your shero when it comes to your life. A man will not save you.
I repeat, a man will not save you. You will have to save yourself if you need saving. Yeah. I say that because some people are upset and want a soft life and want someone to change their entire life. It's not how it works. You have to be soft before you can have a soft life. And that happens before you meet the man, right? Which means you have to have boundaries. You have to be doing things that bring you joy and pleasure.
So wanted to offer that if it helps.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
