Dating coach Anwar White explains why women should aim for 50/50 conversation on dates instead of letting men talk 80 to 90 percent of the time. He shares how one client, a single-mom engineer, rebuilt her confidence after leaving a narcissistic relationship and is now engaged.
Definitely book a consultation. Call with me if you want to work with a dating coach. I am here to help y' all level up. Honey, get your guy. So many women getting their guy in my program, it's, like, kind of scary.
And women that are moving in with their guys. My next wedding will be in February. I have a client in New Orleans that is getting married and who has invited me to her wedding. I generally go to one wedding every quarter. So I'm really excited to help her and just see this. She had come to me, I want to say, like, a year ago.
Trying to think if it was 2021 or 2022.
She had two kids, single mom, engineer, had been in a narcissistic relationship with some military guy. Confidence was low, low, low, low, low, low, low, low, low, low, low, low, low, and couldn't speak up. Had no boundaries, didn't know how to express herself, her desires, her emotions.
Had a lot of inner child wounds that she needed to heal, didn't know what she wanted.
And we had to do all of that.
To up level that confidence, work on her mindset. We had to make sure that she was taking a stance that she was speaking in, like, on dates. Many of you all, like, keep it cute and mute. If you're a smart girl who's not going to be a trophy wife, it's going to be actually really important for you to have a 50, 50 conversation with these guys on dates, because Lord knows you're not going to shut up when you're in a relationship. I know I wouldn't. I got shit to say. I got an opinion. I got thoughts. I have solutions, I think. And if you're that girl, too, please understand that you're gonna have to start saying things. He can't be dominating the conversation and talk 80, 90% of the time. That's not gonna work.
