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Why should you keep your boundaries?

Name: Why should you keep your boundaries?
Uploaded: 2024-06-10T13:05:19+00:00
Duration: 35 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short excerpt from a YouTube video by Anwar White discussing the importance of maintaining personal boundaries in romantic/sexual relationships. The…

10 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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A short excerpt from a YouTube video by Anwar White discussing the importance of maintaining personal boundaries in romantic/sexual relationships. The speaker relays an anecdote quoting 'Octavia' that black men often "disappear" when a woman sets boundaries, arguing many men prefer partners without firm boundaries because it’s easier to get what they want. The speaker advises keeping boundaries to repel such men.

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Octavia said, I think I'm out of black men's leagues. They simply just disappear as soon as I. I set a boundary. No, it's not. They just. Many of them just want to do what they want to do. They don't want to have boundaries because there are a lot of women out there that don't have their boundaries together, especially women of color. So they're. They're like, okay, if you have boundaries, then I don't need to invest in you. Those are most of the guys out there. I'll just invest in a woman who doesn't have boundaries. It's easier for me, and I get. I get everything that I want, and that's it. Yeah. You want to keep those boundaries, though, because you. You want to repel those guys. Okay.