Anwar White argues you should identify what type you are and lean into it. A curvier woman might seek bodybuilders; if you keep dating teachers, lean into that. Stop fighting your type and find people whose type you actually are.
And Jay said, what about the gym? Yeah, girl, go to the gym, Girl, the gym is good. Especially if you are plus size curvier. Girl, Those bodybuilder guys, they're into you. They live for you. They want. They can't get enough of you, girl. Some of the girls, when I tell them to do that, they're like, I don't need you to be telling me to go to the gym, asshole. And I'm like, girl, that's not why I'm telling you to go. I'm telling you to go so you can get you a bodybuilder, girl, because they're living for you. And here's the thing about dating.
You're somebody's type. You've got to figure out whose type you are and really lean into it. Yeah, when I was doing my do, I realized I have a lane. And you know what the. You know, the guys that live for me, teachers. So you know what I was saying? Gotta get me and gotta get myself a teacher, honey. Lo and behold, this guy's talking. This guy's a teacher. Some of y' all accountants, some of y' all IT tech, some of y' all gamers, some of y' all lawyers, some of y' all finance guys. Figure the hell out who your guy is, right? What are the patterns of the guys that have been living for you? And lean into that. That's why I make all these videos about the white guys that are into black girls, right? Or, you know, the non black guy. Or, you know, the kinds of black guys that are into black women or what have you. So, you know, oh, my gosh, if I see an Italian guy, if I see a Jewish guy, if I see a European guy, if I see an artist who's on top of his game, if I see a redhead, right?
Let me lean in.
That's why. That's why I do it, girl.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
