Anwar White argues that a partner should travel to see you, not just fly you to them. Time matters more than money. Showing up in person, finding a hotel, respecting your space, means they actually care.
Tara said, is them flying us in as good as them flying in to see us? No, it's not. They need to come to see you first.
They have to do things based on your convenience if you're going to see them. You're doing labor. It is your time, not theirs.
You need to understand something. Time is more expensive than money.
Yeah. Anyone can buy you a $300 flight. That doesn't. It doesn't matter, right? Are they actually going to take the time to come and see you? That's when you get to differentiate between if a man is interested in you or not. If he could get you a flight and then get you a car to pick you up and bring him right to you, girl, he doesn't have to get out of the bed, and he's expecting you to meet him right at the bed, girl. No shade.
If he flies to you, separates an entire, you know, finds a hotel room to respect your boundaries and takes you out where you're at, that's something else, and that's what we're looking for.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
